Looking back can keep you trapped in defeat – looking forward will release your success.
When I was 10 years old, one of my best friends was Bob Queen. One afternoon while exploring the back acreage of our neighboring farms, a snake bit Bob. Seeing the snake slither off, my immediate response was to run after the snake, track him down and repay the scoundrel for what he had done to my friend. Bob, however, being a much wiser hunter and outdoorsman, quickly pulled out his knife, lanced the bite, sucked the blood out and spit out the poison. The focus for him was on his own well being, not on repaying the snake.
I frequently see people chasing the snake in their own lives. The company folds or you simply get laid off. The immediate reaction may include anger, resentment, bitterness and backstabbing. These lead to discouragement, frustration, guilt and depression. Be aware that all of these reactions and feelings focus on the past. Turning around and looking to the future opens up confidence, boldness, and enthusiasm. These often lead to an increased sense of accomplishment, personal control, fulfillment and even money.
If Bob and I had chased that snake, the poison would have been given opportunity to plunge through his veins, draining his energy and perhaps leading to his death. What are you doing in your life? Are you chasing a snake in the past or pursuing a dream in the future? Choose carefully; your life may be at stake.
Chasing the Snake
- Filing discrimination suit
- Carrying a picket sign in front of the old company
- Focusing on unemployment qualification
- Having gripe sessions with others who were let go
Eliminating the Poison
- Contacting 30-40 companies about your new opportunities
- Increasing your volunteer time
- Spending 2 hours daily reading or listening to positive, inspirational material
- Working out, eating right, smiling more and feeling great
- Planning for the business you’ve always dreamed of
Are you eliminating all poison from your life, or are you still chasing the snake?
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