One of the most important skills we can develop as we walk with Christ is to love difficult people.
Here are four methods Jesus modeled when he encountered difficult people:
- Realize you can't please everybody. Even God can't do that! Refuse to play games (Matthew 22:18).
- Learn to say no to unrealistic expectations. Confront them by “speaking the truth in love” (Ephesians 4:15 NIV).
- NEVER retaliate (Matthew 5:38-39). It only lowers you to their level.
- Pray for them (Matthew 5:44). It will help both of you. Let God speak to them.
Talk About It
- Why is it better to please God instead of trying to please everybody else?
- What are some ways to say no to unrealistic expectations?
What are ways you can pray for the difficult people in your life?
